Quaker Chaplaincy Resources
- Yvonne Aburrow

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About the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers)
Quaker faith springs from a deeply held belief in living life according to spiritual experience. Spiritual insights that Quakers call testimonies spring from deep experience and have been a part of Quaker faith for many years. These testimonies arise out of inner convictions and challenge normal ways of living.
Simplicity: Quakers try to live simply and to give space for the things that really matter: the people around us, the natural world, their experience of God.
Peace: the Quaker peace testimony arises from their conviction that love is at the heart of existence and all human beings are equal in the eyes of God.
Truth & Integrity: Quakers try to live according to the deepest truth they know. This means speaking the truth to all, including people in positions of power. Integrity is the guiding principle they set for themselves and expect in public life.
Justice, Equality & Community: Quakers recognize the equal worth and unique nature of every person.
Unity with Creation: affirming the interrelatedness of nature, spirit and all living beings as expressions of God’s creation.
Find out more at Quaker.ca > Who we are > Testimonies
Quaker organizations
Quakers in Canada - Canadian Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends
Quakers in Britain - Britain Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends
Quaker.org - international Quaker website
Quakers - Canadian Encyclopaedia
Branches of the Quaker Faith in North America - Friends General Conference
LiberalQuakers.org - Liberal Friends, or Quakers, acknowledge and embrace a wide diversity of spiritual experience, identity, and belief, including but not limited to Christianity.
Friends United Meeting - Christian Quakers, USA
Major Organizations of Quaker Branches in the Americas - Quaker Information Center
What do Quakers Believe? - Quaker Information Center
Faith and Practice of Independent, Evangelical, and Pastoral Friends

Historically and at present, Quakers have not placed much emphasis on theological constructs or corporate beliefs of what an afterlife might look like. Friends place much more emphasis on paying attention to the sacredness of daily life and faithfulness to the Divine, from birth to death. It is expected that Friends in one’s Quaker meeting will help the caregivers of the dying person in different ways: visiting, providing childcare if needed, taking turns sitting with and worshipping with the sick or dying Friend, or providing a casserole for the caregivers’ family. Quakers see death as a holy, natural process, not unlike birth. Friends emphasize that grief for a loved one is a healthy, normal process in which they may be of support to one another.
Death, The Afterlife, Funerals, & Memorials - Friends General Conference
Falling into Grace by Steve Fick (2017 SPG Lecture)
Death will inevitably make us an offer that we cannot refuse – to surrender into the vastness of a power that is beyond our ability to comprehend. In the meantime, our daily life offers us ongoing opportunities to begin that process of surrender – to “die before we die,” and in so doing, to awaken to a deeper aliveness – a “falling into grace” that turns our mortality into a spiritual companion. Our Quaker ancestors considered death to be a spiritual event that involved the whole community. When we hide death away, or treat it primarily as a medical event to be managed by professionals, we discourage the dying from doing the profound soul work they need to do as they prepare to enter into this great mystery. As well, the living are robbed of what the dying process might teach them.

Hospice & Caregiver Chaplaincy Resources
Death, The Afterlife, Funerals, & Memorials - Friends General Conference
Guide to Quaker Funerals - Pure Cremation
Quaker Funerals - Funeral Guide
Quaker Funeral Service Rituals - Funeral Wise
Musings on Aging and Death (Quaker.org) by Horatio C. Wood IV
Integrity and the Ultimate - How can we talk about death when we’re so vibrantly alive? (Quaker.org) by Susann Estle
A Quaker Approach to Living with Dying - Does the Quaker way of life have answers to death? (Quaker.org) by Katherine Jaramillo
The Ability to Choose as Death Approaches (Quaker.org) by Linda Lyman
God the Trickster? (Quaker.org) by Carol Reilly Urner
Understanding Death through Life (Quaker.org) by Martin Kelley
My Dad’s Green Burial (Quaker.org) by Christine Ashley
Children and Death (Quaker.org) by John Graham-Pole
Funerals, memorial meetings and dying (Quakers in Britain) - Find out about Quaker funerals and other ways to celebrate the lives of those who have died in our communities.
Eldership and pastoral care (Quakers in Britain) - Quakers with spiritual nurture and pastoral care responsibility look after the people that attend meeting and the life of meeting itself.
Funerals and Memorial Meetings (PDF) (Quakers in Britain)
Funeral wishes (Word) (Quakers in Britain)
Love and loss (PDF) (Quakers in Britain)
Quaker funerals (PDF) (Quakers in Britain)
Quaker perspectives on death
Queries for A Quaker Way of Living with Dying. Explore your thinking on aging, death and dying with these queries and questions for reflection.
Quaker Funerals: A Guide To Quaker Beliefs About Death. Quaker funeral traditions and what to expect at a Quaker cremation or burial.
Decline, Approaching Death, and Dying: Ways to Meet Challenges - Quaker
What Happens After We Die? - Quaker Beliefs About The Afterlife
End of Life Decisions and the Testimonies - Quaker Aging Resources
Please note that this page has been compiled by a member of Interfaith Grand River who is not a Quaker. The content of the page has been emailed to the Religious Society of Friends for approval and review, but no response was forthcoming.



